Carter's Birth Story Part I

So I'm finally getting around to writing about Carter's Birth! These past 11 days with Carter have been wonderful, Kevin and I are enjoying parenthood. I thought I'd write out his birth story to help us remember down the road all the details of his birth. I'll probably do this in several parts as it might be a bit long.

We'll start with Thursday, October 18th, the day before Carter was born. Kevin's dad and his wife got into town that day and we spent the day with them. I requested Newk's for lunch and then Mexican for dinner. We had a great day leading up to Carter's arrival. That night Kevin's dad went to bed as they had gotten up super early for their flight out to Austin, but Kevin and I stayed up and waited for one of Kevin's sisters, Heather, to get into town. Our plan was to wait for her to arrive and then head to bed to get some good rest before getting up early and heading to the hospital the next day. I was told I couldn't eat or drink anything 8 hours prior to my 12:30pm scheduled C-Section. (Again we had to end up doing a planned C-Section as Carter was showing he may be 9 or 10 lbs.) So my plan was to wake up at 3:30AM and have a bowl of cereal or something so I could have something in my stomach and then head back to bed. My parents and my Aunt Lori planned to drive down early Friday morning and meet us at the hospital.

WELL....around 9:15pm Thursday night, Kevin and I were sitting downstairs in our living room and I was readjusting myself (as I always do since I was always uncomfortable). I was trying to sit up a bit straighter on the couch, then all of a sudden, I felt something warm, like I had just peed on myself. I was like OMG, Kevin, I think my water just broke!! I ran to the bathroom and sat on the toilet but couldn't really tell if anything was still coming out. So I decided to stand on some towels in the bathroom and low and behold, I was continually leaking some fluids! SOOO we called my doctor's after hours and they said to head up to labor and delivery for them to test me and make sure my water actually did break.

I called my parents and they decided to go ahead and head straight down to Austin with my Aunt. We headed to the hospital and Kevin's family waited at our house until they heard from us what to do. After checking in and heading to a triage room, they did several tests on me. The results came back and my water had DEFINITELY broke.

Final Belly Shot...

 Waiting in Triage...

The last look at my big belly...

At this point, I was excited, nervous, and a bit annoyed (in a funny way) all at the same time. See I'm a planner and I had planned out everything leading up to the c-section. Now I was nervous as I didn't know if my doctor was going to get to do the c-section or not as it was probably going to happen in the middle of the night. And I was like, seriously Carter...we have been wanting you to come early for several weeks and nothing. But now my water breaks! That Stinker! So we waited to find out what was going to happen.

The nurse finally came back in and told us we had to wait at least 8 hours after I had eaten or drank anything, so with that math, it looked like we might have Carter around 3AM. But the nurse said the on-call doctor ended up speaking with my doctor and he said if I wasn't in active labor they would try to hold off doing the c-section until 7AM and my doctor would come in early so he could deliver.  This made me very excited as I had been really nervous about having a c-section, but knowing my doctor would be doing it made me feel better. My water had broken at this point, but I wasn't have regular contractions. And really, when the monitor showed I was having contractions, I didn't even feel them.

So we told Kevin's family to get some sleep and they could head up to the hospital just a bit earlier than planned the next day. We then got checked into a labor and delivery room where we'd stay until heading back to the operating room. My parents and aunt came by to say hi once they got in and then headed to get a few hours of sleep as well.

Nurse getting me ready...

By this time it was like maybe 1AM? Kevin was so excited as was I. Surprisingly though I wasn't as nervous as I thought I would be, maybe because I was in shock about how all this was unfolding. In a few short hours, I was going to be a mom and would have a baby boy in my arms. Kevin set up shop in the fold out bed and we tried to get a few hours of sleep before the nurse came in to wake us up around 5AM to prep for surgery.

Ready to be parents...

Pictures of Carter's Birth

Well last Friday, Kevin and I experienced the birth of our first child, Carter Anderson Harwood. To say that we are in love would be an understatement. The last 5 days have been such a joy to have this little one that we created! At times it is so surreal that this little man is ours. We have had our ups and downs over the last 5 days, but they are totally worth it to look at this precious child. I'll post soon a full birth story (when I can find the time, ha) but for now I'll leave you with some pictures from that day!

Tomorrow's the Day...

Well tomorrow is the day...

Tomorrow we finally get to meet our baby boy, Carter! To say we are excited would be an understatement. We have been counting down the days. Carter has been content in there and didn't want to make an early appearance, but thats ok. The planner in me is ready and glad to know what and when everything is exactly happening, so I feel prepared.

Tomorrow our lives change forever. We will no longer be just the two of us. I'm ready, Kevin's ready.

We have been looking forward to this day for such a long time. We had a bit of a bumpy road getting here. Its funny to think back to a year ago today. I was frustrated and sad wondering what was going on with me and my body and praying nothing was going to keep me from having a baby. The planner in me thought I'd already be pregnant at this time last year. But obviously, God had other plans. We had many more lows to hit before we could get to the highs. Hitting those lows though made us lean on God more and trust in Him more than we ever had before. God's plans are perfect and we knew he had a plan for us.

On February 18th, when we saw this...and our lives changed...

We are blessed and so thankful the Lord blessed us with this child. We have been praying for him and praying that someday he'll know the Lord and know that he is blessing from Him.

I've been pretty emotional lately just thinking about when I'm finally going to meet my son. I've bawled my eyes out several times thinking about that moment and just ready for it finally be here. Less than 24 hours.

Pray for us tomorrow. Pray for doctor and nurses hands during the c-section. Pray for Carter that he doesn't have any complications and that he comes out healthy and fine. Pray for me. I've never had real surgery so I'm pretty nervous about being cut open. Pray that I make it through fine without any complications. Pray that my recovery is smooth.

I can't wait for everyone to meet Carter. As soon as I can, we'll post a picture of him for everyone to see.

Tomorrow's the Day.... God is good!

38 Weeks...Less than a Week to GO!

Well today I am officially 38 Weeks. This time exactly next Friday, we will have just arrived at the hospital to get ready for my C-Section, unless Carter has other plans and starts to come on his own some time this week. (WE REALLY WANT THAT TO HAPPEN!)

This past week has really been the hardest for me throughout my pregnancy. Off and on, I have had this sharp pains in the exact same spot on the left side going around to my back. Monday and Tuesday I was doing pretty well (still waking up about every hour or two in the middle of the night though with some pain). But Wednesday was AWFUL. Usually the pain lasts about 15-20 mins and stops and doesn't come back for another hour or two if at all. But Wednesday it just didn't seem to go away and the worse one was about an hour. I was crying and calling the nurses at the doctor's office. We all seem to be stumped on what the issue is. Everyone feels like it sounds like kidney stones, but all test results come back negative. So who knows. At one point she said she talked to my doctor and he was willing to move my c-section up to TODAY, but after checking the schedule, they didn't have any availabilities. :( I was pretty bummed. I didn't know how I was going to make it through another week of dealing with this pain. In the end she gave me some pain medication and it seems to be working. Yesterday and so far today haven't been as bad. So let's pray it continues this way.

Kevin and I are starting to get really impatient. We really want Carter to be here. Kevin was super bummed he didn't come yesterday. He was really hoping his birthday could be 10-11-12!! Sorry Kevin!! We keep telling Carter how much fun it is outside my belly and he'll like it so much better. But he seems content right now.

I do feel like Carter has dropped now. I look more bottom heavy on my belly than out and I have a lot more pressure. So I hope that means he's coming sooner rather than later. Carter is still moving like crazy, which baffles me because I have no idea how he has that much room to still move alot. It really is like watching my stomach do waves. And lately its starting to really hurt when he is super active. But I'm glad he is moving around, as that helps us know he's still doing well inside there.

Pray for us this next week. Pray for patience, pray for strength for me, pray that my pain stays in check, and pray for a safe delivery and no complications.

Carter....Mommy and Daddy love you so much and we CAN NOT WAIT to meet you. We know you are going to be such a joy in our lives and we are ready start this adventure with you and watch you grow into an amazing person.

Not so Fun Weekend...

On Friday, I officially was 37 weeks, but I ended up having a horrible weekend.

You see in the middle of the night Fri AM, I started having these horrible pains on my left side where my waist line was going horizontally across my back but no all the way to my spine. And the pain even made me feel a little nauseated. I was up all night tossing and turning, walking around, laying on the couch, etc...just trying to find a position where the pain would stop. Finally around like 5:30AM I got in a comfortable position on the couch, propped up by pillows. I ended up sleeping there until Kevin woke up to go to work and then I went back to my bed and sleep another hour and a half. Then all day Friday, I was fine...no pain. I figured I must have just sleep funny, so I didn't bother calling my doctor on Friday.

Well then around 4:30, I started feeling sick to my stomach again, but the baby was moving alot so I figured it must be from him. Kevin and I went and got dinner and then I got home and I got situated on the couch to relax the rest of the night. Around 6:30 or so, the pain came back in the same spot and started getting really bad to the point that I was in tears. I finally decided I should call the dr office. I called their after hours and the nurse was concerned it could be a kidney infection and told me to head up to the hospital to Labor and Delivery for them to check me out.

So we loaded up all our hospital bags and such not knowing if we might have stay or what. We got sent to a triage room and the waiting began. After giving a urine sample, they didn't see anything that would indicate a kidney infection, so the doctor there just said it is probably a strained muscle from my big baby. He gave me an ambien to help me sleep that night and just told me to take extra strength tylenol and I should be good.

Well apparently the ambien didn't work because I was up all night again really hurting alternating between my bed and the couches. Then Saturday around 11:30AM or so, the pain just got so bad that I ended up throwing up. NOT FUN. We decided we should call after hours again. They decided I should head back up to L&D.

We ended up being at the hospital for 7 hours on Saturday and them doing every test under the sun. I got sick several times when the pain would get so bad. It was miserable. For a while they thought it was kidney infection again, but after several other types of tests, they ruled it out and decided I must be having muscle spasms since it would come in waves with how bad the pain was.

They gave me some muscle relaxers and so far it seems to be working and keeping the pain away for the most part, at least not to where it is so bad it makes me sick.

We had our doctors appointment this afternoon and he really would like to get me past 38 weeks before having this baby, so we are keeping our scheduled C-Section for the 19th right now. But he said if I have another episode like I did this past weekend, we may just have to bump it up.

So it looks like I have 11 days left until we meet Carter, unless I go into labor or have an episode like this weekend. I'm ready to meet him!! So let's pray I can get through these next 11 days as smoothly as possible!!

36 Weeks

Well on Friday, I turned 36 weeks... so today we had our doctor's appointment. This is the one we have been waiting for to one see Carter again, but also find out how big they think he is!!

We met with the sonographer and she measured his head, belly, and something else. All those were measuring at 40 WEEKS! So somehow the computer calculates all those measurements to come up with an estimate on how much they think he weighs RIGHT NOW. The average baby mind you weighs around 6lbs at this point and is suppose to gain about a 1/2 lb a week from here on out. I knew he was big, so I was expecting oh you know 7lbs and something.

Well Carter surprised us all and is

8 LBS 10 OZ!!!!

Holy cow!!! She said in their estimate, if he went to full term...he'd be over 10lbs. Oh Lordy!!!

That is what I get for being a 5'2'' girl who marries a 6'5'' boy!!!

Needless to say I freaked out a bit for awhile. We had to then wait to see our doctor and that was the longest wait EVER!

We met with him and he really is great and tries to make me feel better about everything. Essentially he told me that at a rate of his growing 1/2 lb a week from here on out we needed to talk about our options. I really, REALLY want to have him vaginally. I'm scared of c-sections. I'm scared of surgery really. The most "surgery" I've ever had is just getting my wisdom teeth out and that did a number on me. And really just the thought of being cut open freaks me out. But I've told my doctor all along that if he tells me I need to have one, then I'll do if thats whats best for me and Carter.

SO, he said if I was to have him today he's not as concerned about doing a c-section, but if he doesn't come on his own in the next week or so, it may be best to do one. He said there could be problems getting him out with his shoulders and such getting stuck, but really there could be a lot of complications for me. I can only stretch out all those areas so much and it could cause other problems for me down the road. So he wants to have an end date in sight.

SOOOOOO, if Big C doesn't decide to come on his own in the next 7-14 days, we are having a C-Section on

October 19th!!!

So at least we know he'll be here by then!

I'm nervous and scared, but I know God has a plan and everything is going to work out just fine.

But really Carter, you can come any day now...I'm ok with that!! ;)